The joys of being a wedding planner

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On a wedding day, however, you have to approach the job in a thorough, methodical way, sometimes devoid of emotions so as to never crack under pressure. You won’t believe the amount of times I wished I could just stop and savour the “I do” moment, shed a little tear and congratulate the couple as and when it happens! The truth is, there is no time for that. Nine times out of 10 there will be a call to be made to the driver, someone in the catering team who needs your attention, a table plan to be recheck, a gift for the bridesmaid to hide, a chat with the DJ about volume, a table cloth to iron, a restroom to be restocked… It is (underline “is” because I mean it) fun – not literally, of course, but it feels like it when you love your job – but intense too.

After a day on your feet, thinking about the 100s of things you need to do, you can’t even begin to imagine the joy and relief when you get at the end of the day and you finally get a quiet one-to-one moment with your couple, share a hug, maybe a little tear too, and you hear words of gratitude.Beach wedding, Elopement, Beach wedding in Sharm el Sheikh, Destination wedding, Wedding planner, Destination wedding planner, Elisabetta White, Linen and Silk Weddings, Red Sea weddings, Sharm el Sheikh wedding, Wedding planner Sharm el Sheikh, Wedding in Egypt, Wedding in Sharm el Sheikh, Sultan Gardens wedding, Wedding venue Sharm el SheikhThis gorgeous bride is Sophia and today she is celebrating her 1st year anniversary with her husband Matt (congratulations lovelies!!!!!). Last year I helped Sophia plan her gorgeous beach wedding in Sharm el Sheikh. The team and I worked incredibly hard for a days to make sure everything was perfect for them -  it was exciting and challenging and at the same time! We had 42C on that day, and we had to shoot the details at 1pm in the afternoon! Cakes were melting in front of our very own eyes, and just as the altar had to be set up, the wind picked up, making it all incredibly tricky. As you can see from my face, by the end of the day I was physically broken, but SO happy! As Sophia and Matt left the venue, the last words she told me were: “This girl is magic.” And right at that second, none of the challenges mattered. I completely forgot that I was sunburnt, swollen and exhausted, because all that mattered was that this couple felt that their trust had been rewarded.

So, as Matt & Sophia celebrate their first wedding anniversary, I will be thinking of them and all the couples that have allowed me so far to play such a huge part in their wedding with a lot fondness and gratitude. Your trust and love gives me joy and makes being a wedding planner the best job in the world! 

xoxo Betta

Credits: 2nd image courtesy of destination wedding photographer: Nora Photography

FEATURED | Linen and Silk Weddings on Y&YW July/August 2015

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Very excited to see some of our work featured on You & Your Wedding (July/August 2015) magazine and being listed as one of Y&YW contributors!

Huge thanks to the whole team that worked with me to create this beautiful “modern vintage” wedding inspiration and to Julia of Y&YW for choosing our work to grace the pages of the magazine!
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xoxo Betta

 

Meet me in Sharm el Sheikh to talk about your destination wedding

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One thing I am getting excited about is my Sharm el Sheikh and Red Sea destination wedding service. As you know I launched my destination wedding planning for  couples wanting to get married in Sharm el Sheikh back in 2013, right at the end of Egypt’s second revolution. It’s been a bit of a roller coaster ever since, and at times I wondered if it was worth it. Many of the enquiries I’ve received have budgets that don’t justify the cost of my service, which as you can imagine, has made me question whether it was the right market for me. But with time I have come to realise that I have something special and unique, and that at the right time Sharm el Sheikh and some of the new Red Sea resorts I’m adding to my services would finally pick up momentum. I think that time is NOW.

The new Egyptian president, Abdel Fattah al-Sisi, is apparently investing a lot into raising Egypt’s economic profile and turning a leaf after 4 years of instability*. Tourism being one of the main sources of income for the country means that Egypt’s tourism destinations are starting to see a positive effect as a lot of effort is being put into ensuring the resorts are safe for tourists and resources are allocated to promote tourism to Egypt abroad. It is my job, therefore, to ride this wave, do what I can to push wedding tourism, and educate brides and grooms to the kind of weddings and budgets required to get married in Sharm el Sheikh.

With this in mind, I’ll be back in Sharm el Sheikh in May 2015 (1st to 14th), so if you are heading over to organise your wedding and you’d like an informal chat, or would like to book me out for a day to go over your plans and receive some helpful tips and advice, don’t hesitate to get in touch! I will also be available for intimate renewal of vows and surprise proposals. Just give me a call or drop me an email and we’ll take it from there.

Lots of love,

xoxo Betta

*If you’d like to know more about the current situation in Sharm el Sheikh, here’s a really insightful CNN video on Sharm’s economic comeback: http://edition.cnn.com/videos/world/2015/03/25/exp-sharm-daftari-mme-egypt.cnn

 

Inbal Dror trunk show | 20-28 March at Morgan Davies Bridal

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Morning lovelies, if you are looking for a divine wedding dress and you are in the UK, then this post is for you! Morgan Davies London is hosting an exciting Inbal Dror event from 20th to 28th March previewing the Inbal Dror 2015 collection as well as classics from previous collections. Having seen Inbal Dror past collections in person at Morgan Davies Bridal, I  promise you they are mesmerising and as feminine as they could possibly be!

Morgan Davies Bridal will be offering extended consultations during the event (by appointment only) where brides will be able to try the dresses and choose their wedding gown from this amazing designer while being spoilt by complementary bubbly and tasty treats. As an extra gift to the brides, Morgan Davies Bridal will also include a complementary veil with any dress ordered at this event to celebrate the release of this new collection.

If you’d like to book an appointment, ring the boutique on 0207 2533007 or for more information visit www.morgandavieslondon.co.uk.

And now, indulge in these gorgeous images of Inbal Dror 2015 Venice collection!

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xoxo Betta

One for photographers: SNAP Photography Festival 13 – 17 April 2015

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Here’s one for wedding photographers across the globe, one that actually makes me wish I were a photographer! If you haven’t heard about SNAP Photography Festival yet, it’s time to come out of hibernation, sign up and get warmed up around that campfire with fellow inspirational photographers!Linen and Silk Weddings, Snap Photography Festival, Photography, Photography education, Photography networking event, Laura Babb, Photography festivalA world class line up, an epic party and the start of a new community: SNAP is the UK’s first ever photography festival aimed at wedding and lifestyle photographers in April in Wales.

SNAP Photography Festival is a cross between a festival and a conference with clamping, learning, networking and inspirational activities, gathering together 100 photographers from all over the UK, Europe and the rest of the world. Held at the beautiful Fforest resort in West Wales, the festival will run to the same format as a music festival but is designed as an immersive learning and creative development experience for both new and experienced photographers. Some of the world’s most inspiring wedding photographers will be teaching alongside the UK’s finest home grown talent, as well as photographers from outside of the wedding genre.

Inspired by Photo Field Trip in the US earlier in 2014 Laura Babb, Snap Photography Festival’s founder, decided to bring something similar to the UK. As well as all of the amazing workshops and activities they are planning, they’ve also planned an epic closing party where campers can let off some steam before the start of the new wedding season.

The ticket price includes workshops covering everything from branding to a late night astro photography walk, as well as inspiring talks from photographers including Sam Hurd, Ross Harvey, Dylan and Sara and Lomo Kev. The full schedule can be found here.

For further information visit www.snapphotofestival.com or connect on Facebook // #snapphotofest, or contact Laura Babb (snaphotofestival@gmail.com, @babbphoto) or Alexandra Merri (alexandra.merri@gmail.com).

Here’s some of the work by some of the amazing photographers that will be speaking at SNAP.

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How to find a band or DJ for your destination wedding

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Shall we talk about music at your destination wedding for a minute? I think we should, and I’ll tell you why. It is by far one of the hardest things to get right when getting married abroad.

Music taste is really subjective and unless someone is totally rubbish at singing, what sounds amazing to one person might not sound great to another. Simply because taste in music varies from person to person.

When getting married abroad you have a tough decision to make. Should you hire a band? Or should you hire a DJ? What about classical players? The problem is, you probably have never heard any of them playing in person, with exception of a few clips on their website. So how do you know that they will bring the kind of energy you are looking for? If you had the budget I would say: fly your favourite band / DJ in from your country. But if you don’t have the kind of budget that would allow this, then TRUST is what you need. And a few hours to research too. Where to start?Linen and Silk Weddings, Elisabetta White Weddings, Destination wedding, Wedding music, Wedding band, Wedding jazz band, WeddingDJ app  First off, ask your wedding venue for recommendations. They have bands and DJs playing at weddings every weekend, so they will know which ones seem to be doing a great job, have the best feedback, not to mention collaborate and respect the rules of your venue (absolutely vital!).

 Ask your venue if there is a wedding the day after yours and see if they can find out who their band / DJ is. Having a wedding at the same site for two days in a row might make a positive difference to the cost, and if after listening to some of their work online you like what you hear, it might save you a huge amount of hours searching for the right one.

Linen and Silk Weddings, Elisabetta White Weddings, Destination wedding, Wedding music, Wedding band, Wedding jazz band, WeddingDJ app While bands and DJs don’t always seem to get a credit on blogs, there are times when they do. Use blogs as your directory. Search for real weddings in the region where you are getting married, go straight down to the credits of each real wedding you see and compile a list of all the entertainment suppliers you can see.

 Get in touch with a live music bookers, such as My Fabulous Wedding Ban / LM2 Entertainment or Live Music International. They will be able to look at the portfolio of musicians to see if there is anyone who matches your requirements available to travel to your destination.

♥ Lastly, the wild card. If you decide that this process is too long and laborious, you could either hire a wedding planner for her supplier search services, so that she can come up with at least 3 options that are based on your needs and budget, or go down a DIY route. Linen and Silk Weddings, Elisabetta White Weddings, Destination wedding, Wedding music, Wedding band, Wedding jazz band, WeddingDJ app If you choose the do it yourself option, you will need to talk to the venue about their sound system to understand if you could use it and if it is suitable for the space (an outdoor reception will require a system that is considerably more powerful than what you would use in an enclosed space), or if you need to hire a better amp and speakers. Next download “WeddingDJ – Plan and play your wedding music” app from iTunes. It will allow you to plan the music for your entire day in easy, straightforward playlists (i.e. pre-ceremony, bride entrance, welcome drink, etc.). The app is only £5.99 (bargain!), so all you need to do is taking care of populating it with your favourite tunes.

I hope these few suggestions help!

xo Betta

Credits top to bottom: image unknown, via Colin Cowie // Colin Miller via Colin Cowie // own screenshot

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